Cliches

I am a firm believer that cliches are truths spoken too regularly by those who do not fully comprehend their meaning thus making them 'cliches'.

The one new truth "Learn to love yourself" is the one I have recently come to comprehend. I believe I am beginning to have a love affair with myself. I picture my inner me being kissed lovingly on the forehead by me. Yes, it is a strange concept.

I was thinking on all of the couples I've known who were genuinely in love with each other and how they in turn love those around them peacefully. The security of being loved by another removes all of the trepidation and loneliness thereby allowing them the confidence to love others without fear of loss.

When I think about it, it seems a healthy out look. I care for myself in a way that I would a lover. I think of what is best for me and I sacrifice for me. I am submissive and leader at the same time. I could see this leading into a more balanced and loving relationship with an external person.

And in turn I see how I love others without attachment, jealousy, or fear. I feel connected and see the goodness in others without needing that understanding in return because I have found that acceptance in myself with myself.